Visiting an Orthodox Church

ARE NON-ORTHODOX VISITORS WELCOME?
Yes, absolutely. Welcome to our community! We are a diverse group of cradle-born Orthodox Christians and those who have embraced the faith through conversion. Whether you are a newcomer inquirer, or visitor, we invite you to explore the rich traditions of ancient Coptic Orthodox Christianity. Join us on this journey of discovery and fellowship!

IS THERE A DRESS CODE?
The general rule for men and women is to dress appropriately, modestly and respectfully, as before the living God. We ask that you not wear shorts, mini-skirts, tank tops, low-cut or strapless dresses (unless covered by a sweater, etc.).

HOW LONG ARE THE SERVICES?
On Saturday evenings, the Evening Raising of Incense service (Vespers) is generally 30–45 minutes in length and may include a short homily in Arabic or English. On Sunday mornings, a similar service is celebrated before the Divine Liturgy. Afterwards, the Divine Liturgy is approximately 3 hours in length with an English homily after the Gospel is chanted. We understand this may seem like a very long service, but we know that when you participate in an Orthodox service you will feel like you have truly worshipped the living God.

CAN NON-ORTHODOX RECEIVE THE HOLY EUCHARIST?
Orthodox priests may only serve the Holy Eucharist to baptized members in good standing of the canonical Orthodox Church, who have recently confessed, and fasted before partaking of the Holy Eucharist. This is the ancient tradition of the Holy Church for the 2,000 years of its history. The Orthodox Church understands the Holy Eucharist as a mystery of the real presence of Christ in the Eucharist, not simply as a memorial, or merely in a spiritual sense, as many other non-Orthodox Christians do. Rather than trying to accommodate to often varying “interpretations” or revisions of this and other doctrines of the ancient faith, we simply ask that you respect the ancient, apostolic tradition and join us in receiving the Eulogia (blessed bread), at the end of the Divine Liturgy.

WHAT ARE ORTHODOX WORSHIP HYMNS LIKE?
Between 65–75% of the traditional Coptic Liturgy involves chanting. Coptic Christians do not use musical instruments with the exception of the cymbals and triangle, which are used simply to keep musical rhythm. A choir of deacons leads the congregation in harmonious chants, usually in Coptic, English, and Arabic. Our hymns are solemn, prayerful and intended to lead the faithful to worship God. New visitors will find there are many new things to experience in a Coptic Orthodox Church service. Feel free to go at your own pace, ask any questions you want, and know you are most welcome to “come and see.”

GREETING THE CLERGY
The Orthodox Christian respects and loves the clergy. Knowing that the clergy are servants of God and man, devoting their life for the salvation of their flock, the Orthodox Christian expresses his/her gratitude and respect to them on every occasion.
When speaking with the Clergy the following terms are proper:
To the Pope: “Your Holiness”;
To all other Patriarchs: “Your Beatitude”;
1) To the Metropolitan: “Your Eminence”;
2) To the Bishop: “Your Grace”;
3) To a Priest: “Father”;
4) To a Deacon: “Deacon”.